Why should i forgive ???

Well guys, i aint too picked up for this blog stuff... but trust me, there are ppl who make you going. This aint me, but i am what i am now... Sounds weard ?

I was surfing the internet and was going through a lotta blogs (Intention: Gotta start blogging). Well, there's this blog that turned me into a blogger. I never had an idea of what you guys put in your blog and what you get on doing so... now this blog here has showed me a path way of what i should write and what i get out of it.

Now, you should probably think, why should i put a title "Why should i forgive???" and finally write up a god damn history of how i started up... trust me, before you start doing something, praise the source...

Why the F*** should i forgive???

I read this blog written by a female named Sandy who was too depressed that no one cared for her expectations... She felt bad that her friends and family weren't giving much attention to her and the weard part is, she's got some good old blogger friends who're trying to convice her that those who never cared for her are good and she needs to change her mind and forgive them for what they're doing, they say she needs to forgive them for what they promised... well i ask, Why the F*** should i forgive ???

Imagine a hot sunny day, a good'ol weekend, you wait in front of a restaurant awaiting your friend who just called that morning and invited you to have breakfast with him/her... you wait for an hour, you don't see your friend, you try calling up but the phone's just ringing... you wait for another couple of hours and decide to go home hungry... On your way home, you find your friend with some other set of friends, having fun and laughter... what would you do ? Forgive them and just go home... or go bang bang...
Now, how shall we relate this with what Sandy has experienced... Lets consider her friend say, named Miss XYZ... Now XYZ and Sandy are very close friends. XYZ keeps telling Sandy that she's the best friend for her and she would do anything to keep her happy (Oops ! She just made a virtual promise). The next day, Sandy calls XYZ to ask her if she's free to accompany her to the park, now XYZ says, "I'm sorry Sandy, i've got to study, we'll catch up in the evening", Sandy, forgives XYZ. In the evening, Sandy calls XYZ and asks if they can move to the park. Now XYZ says, yup, lets go... They go to the park have a nice time together... Now, the next day morning, Sandy realizes that she hasn't done an assignment and she gotta submit it the next day... She sits with the assignment, keys a few letters that says "Assignment-I, Sa..." by the time she even finishes the title, the phone rings. Her mom shouts, "Sandy, its XYZ". She rushes to the phone and XYZ says "I donno how busy you're, or how tired you're, i want you to be at my home in 10 mins. I've got the movie tickets for X-Men Origins: Wolverine... can you believe it ? I cant wait to see Hugh Jackmen.. blahblah blah..." now Sandy din't want to hurt her sweet friend and goes for the movie even though she hates the concept and the actor... The next day she gets screwed up fot not doing the assignment, whereas her sweet friend Miss XYZ gets praised for doing it (When did she do that ? That day morning without going to the park).

Now, guys... make it clear... Who made the promise and who followed it ? XYZ says that she loves Sandy and will do anything to keep her happ, but finally Sandy turns up to keep XYZ's promise and gets screwed up... So... Who should forgive who ? Why should she forgive the ppl who hurt her ? Why should she forgive the ppl who made a god damn promise and finally end up showing a reason to earase that promise with forgiveness ? I too have experienced and am experience it still... I still ask... Why should i forgive ???